Do you proclaim to have “Jungle Fever” or “a thing for black women?”
Do you believe that black women are, by virtue of their race, exotic and different?
Do you think of dating a black woman as a new or exotic experience?
Do you have a fascination with how biracial children look? Are you seeking out black women for the sole purpose of having mixed kids?
Are you pursuing a black woman as an act of rebellion against your friends and/or family?
Do you expect all or most black women to behave the same?
If you answer yes to any of these, then you should take a step back to reevaluate. These are harmful stereotypes that will not only make your black partner uncomfortable, they will further marginalize them.